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This week's Parsha, Ki Tissa, includes the unfortunate sin of the
Golden calf, and includes Moshe's negotiations on the Jews'
behalf. While there are many things one can learn about the art of
negotiations, what seems out of place is that after things are
smoothed over and G-d is appeased, Moshe asks to see G-d's
presence (and was denied) (33:18). While there are varying
explanations as to what Moshe really wanted to see (from G-d's
attributes to His essence), why would Moshe ask such a question
right after G-d had gotten so angry that he threatened to destroy
the world?
One possible answer lies in the very nature of struggle and
challenge. When we are faced with a challenge, whether we overcome
it or succumb to it, the most valuable aspect of the challenge is
the "WE". Not if, but WHEN a couple, a family, a community, a
people is faced with a challenge, they naturally become more
attached to each other, and grow more cohesive. This is often the
point of life's challenges, although this is frequently
overlooked. Moshe worked out a reprieve for the Jews with G-d, and
as a result they became close enough that Moshe thought he had a
chance to see G-d's essence, and although he was denied his
request, Moshe was granted other insight. We too can gain insight
into each other, as long as we focus on each other when faced with
life's challenges!